100 Bible Verses About Family Conflict
Bible verses about Family Conflict
Family conflict, a universal struggle echoing through generations, finds solace and guidance within the scriptures. Exploring Bible verses about family conflict offers a path towards understanding, reconciliation, and healing. These verses illuminate the root causes of discord, from jealousy and pride to miscommunication and unmet expectations. They also reveal God's unwavering desire for harmony and love to reign within families. By studying these passages, we gain wisdom to navigate difficult relationships, cultivate empathy, and seek divine intervention to restore peace and unity in our homes, mirroring the love and forgiveness offered through Christ.
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Genesis 25:23 (KJV)
And the Lord said unto her, Two nations are in thy womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.
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And Jacob their father said unto them, Me have ye bereaved of my children: Joseph is not, and Simeon is not, and ye will take Benjamin away: all these things are against me.
And they made their father drink wine that night also: and the younger arose, and lay with him; and he perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.
And he commanded them, saying, Thus shall ye speak unto my lord Esau; Thy servant Jacob saith thus, I have sojourned with Laban, and stayed there until now:
Thus God rendered the wickedness of Abimelech, which he did unto his father, in slaying his seventy brethren:
Wherefore Nathan spake unto Bath–sheba the mother of Solomon, saying, Hast thou not heard that Adonijah the son of Haggith doth reign, and David our lord knoweth it not?
And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king’s daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her.
Nevertheless a lad saw them, and told Absalom: but they went both of them away quickly, and came to a man’s house in Bahurim, which had a well in his court; whither they went down.
And Jotham ran away, and fled, and went to Beer, and dwelt there, for fear of Abimelech his brother.
And Abner said again to Asahel, Turn thee aside from following me: wherefore should I smite thee to the ground? how then should I hold up my face to Joab thy brother?
And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house.
But Absalom pressed him, that he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him.
And say ye moreover, Behold, thy servant Jacob is behind us. For he said, I will appease him with the present that goeth before me, and afterward I will see his face; peradventure he will accept of me.
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
And they said unto them, We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one that is uncircumcised; for that were a reproach unto us:
Otherwise it shall come to pass, when my lord the king shall sleep with his fathers, that I and my son Solomon shall be counted offenders.
And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.
And she spake unto him according to these words, saying, The Hebrew servant, which thou hast brought unto us, came in unto me to mock me:
And the thing was very grievous in Abraham’s sight because of his son.
And if a man shall lie with his uncle’s wife, he hath uncovered his uncle’s nakedness: they shall bear their sin; they shall die childless.
Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king’s heart was toward Absalom.
And he dreamed yet another dream, and told it his brethren, and said, Behold, I have dreamed a dream more; and, behold, the sun and the moon and the eleven stars made obeisance to me.
And it came to pass, as soon as Isaac had made an end of blessing Jacob, and Jacob was yet scarce gone out from the presence of Isaac his father, that Esau his brother came in from his hunting.
And they took Absalom, and cast him into a great pit in the wood, and laid a very great heap of stones upon him: and all Israel fled every one to his tent.
And thy handmaid had two sons, and they two strove together in the field, and there was none to part them, but the one smote the other, and slew him.
This is the law of jealousies, when a wife goeth aside to another instead of her husband, and is defiled;
And he walked in all the sins of his father, which he had done before him: and his heart was not perfect with the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father.
And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.
And Jacob beheld the countenance of Laban, and, behold, it was not toward him as before.
And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes.
Then said Jonathan, My father hath troubled the land: see, I pray you, how mine eyes have been enlightened, because I tasted a little of this honey.
And Jacob said unto his father, I am Esau thy firstborn; I have done according as thou badest me: arise, I pray thee, sit and eat of my venison, that thy soul may bless me.
And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.
I am become a stranger unto my brethren, and an alien unto my mother’s children.
Thus were both the daughters of Lot with child by their father.
But it came to pass within a while after, in the time of wheat harvest, that Samson visited his wife with a kid; and he said, I will go in to my wife into the chamber. But her father would not suffer him to go in.
And Joseph said unto them, What deed is this that ye have done? wot ye not that such a man as I can certainly divine?
But now they that are younger than I have me in derision, whose fathers I would have disdained to have set with the dogs of my flock.
And Reuben returned unto the pit; and, behold, Joseph was not in the pit; and he rent his clothes.
And the Lord said unto her, Two nations are in thy womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.
And they made their father drink wine that night: and the firstborn went in, and lay with her father; and he perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.
And if ye take this also from me, and mischief befall him, ye shall bring down my gray hairs with sorrow to the grave.
And a certain man saw it, and told Joab, and said, Behold, I saw Absalom hanged in an oak.
And his brethren envied him; but his father observed the saying.
So he let him go: then she said, A bloody husband thou art, because of the circumcision.
Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy daughter in law: she is thy son’s wife; thou shalt not uncover her nakedness.
For whereas my father put a heavy yoke upon you, I will put more to your yoke: my father chastised you with whips, but I will chastise you with scorpions.
And Moses diligently sought the goat of the sin offering, and, behold, it was burnt: and he was angry with Eleazar and Ithamar, the sons of Aaron which were left alive, saying,
And ten young men that bare Joab’s armour compassed about and smote Absalom, and slew him.
Then there passed by Midianites merchantmen; and they drew and lifted up Joseph out of the pit, and sold Joseph to the Ishmeelites for twenty pieces of silver: and they brought Joseph into Egypt.
And Jacob went near unto Isaac his father; and he felt him, and said, The voice is Jacob’s voice, but the hands are the hands of Esau.
Then Lot chose him all the plain of Jordan; and Lot journeyed east: and they separated themselves the one from the other.
And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother’s wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.
And Joseph dreamed a dream, and he told it his brethren: and they hated him yet the more.
And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king’s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.
But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal’s wife, saying, Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to salute our master; and he railed on them.
Wherefore didst thou flee away secretly, and steal away from me; and didst not tell me, that I might have sent thee away with mirth, and with songs, with tabret, and with harp?
And Isaac loved Esau, because he did eat of his venison: but Rebekah loved Jacob.
When Leah saw that she had left bearing, she took Zilpah her maid, and gave her Jacob to wife.
And as he did so year by year, when she went up to the house of the Lord, so she provoked her; therefore she wept, and did not eat.
And he said unto Jether his firstborn, Up, and slay them. But the youth drew not his sword: for he feared, because he was yet a youth.
And Saul answered, God do so and more also: for thou shalt surely die, Jonathan.
And king Solomon answered and said unto his mother, And why dost thou ask Abishag the Shunammite for Adonijah? ask for him the kingdom also; for he is mine elder brother; even for him, and for Abiathar the priest, and for Joab the son of Zeruiah.
Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead.
Cursed be he that setteth light by his father or his mother. And all the people shall say, Amen.
Yea, they opened their mouth wide against me, and said, Aha, aha, our eye hath seen it.
And Jonathan said, Far be it from thee: for if I knew certainly that evil were determined by my father to come upon thee, then would not I tell it thee?
Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife.
(And the children of Israel went up and wept before the Lord until even, and asked counsel of the Lord, saying, Shall I go up again to battle against the children of Benjamin my brother? And the Lord said, Go up against him.)
And Jephthah said unto the elders of Gilead, Did not ye hate me, and expel me out of my father’s house? and why are ye come unto me now when ye are in distress?
But he refused, and said unto his master’s wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand;
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Notwithstanding in thy days I will not do it for David thy father’s sake: but I will rend it out of the hand of thy son.
They that dwell in mine house, and my maids, count me for a stranger: I am an alien in their sight.
Saul also sent messengers unto David’s house, to watch him, and to slay him in the morning: and Michal David’s wife told him, saying, If thou save not thy life to night, to morrow thou shalt be slain.
Then David came to Mahanaim. And Absalom passed over Jordan, he and all the men of Israel with him.
And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
And when Joseph saw that his father laid his right hand upon the head of Ephraim, it displeased him: and he held up his father’s hand, to remove it from Ephraim’s head unto Manasseh’s head.
And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard.
And the king said unto Cushi, Is the young man Absalom safe? And Cushi answered, The enemies of my lord the king, and all that rise against thee to do thee hurt, be as that young man is.
And the man said unto Joab, Though I should receive a thousand shekels of silver in mine hand, yet would I not put forth mine hand against the king’s son: for in our hearing the king charged thee and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Beware that none touch the young man Absalom.
For, as the Lord liveth, which saveth Israel, though it be in Jonathan my son, he shall surely die. But there was not a man among all the people that answered him.
And they took Joseph’s coat, and killed a kid of the goats, and dipped the coat in the blood;
And Jonathan answered Saul his father, and said unto him, Wherefore shall he be slain? what hath he done?
And Saul had a concubine, whose name was Rizpah, the daughter of Aiah: and Ish–bosheth said to Abner, Wherefore hast thou gone in unto my father’s concubine?
And Sarai Abram’s wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife.
So Absalom dwelt two full years in Jerusalem, and saw not the king’s face.
All that hate me whisper together against me: against me do they devise my hurt.
So that the man that is tender among you, and very delicate, his eye shall be evil toward his brother, and toward the wife of his bosom, and toward the remnant of his children which he shall leave:
And Jacob heard that he had defiled Dinah his daughter: now his sons were with his cattle in the field: and Jacob held his peace until they were come.
He that speaketh flattery to his friends, even the eyes of his children shall fail.
And Ahithophel said unto Absalom, Go in unto thy father’s concubines, which he hath left to keep the house; and all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father: then shall the hands of all that are with thee be strong.
And he returned unto his brethren, and said, The child is not; and I, whither shall I go?
Come, and let us sell him to the Ishmeelites, and let not our hand be upon him; for he is our brother and our flesh. And his brethren were content.
And it was told Joab, Behold, the king weepeth and mourneth for Absalom.
And his sons walked not in his ways, but turned aside after lucre, and took bribes, and perverted judgment.
And he said, Thy brother came with subtilty, and hath taken away thy blessing.
And it came to pass, when Israel dwelt in that land, that Reuben went and lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine: and Israel heard it. Now the sons of Jacob were twelve:
And Joseph said unto them, That is it that I spake unto you, saying, Ye are spies:
(She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
And her adversary also provoked her sore, for to make her fret, because the Lord had shut up her womb.
Navigating family conflict through the lens of Scripture offers a powerful pathway toward reconciliation and healing. The verses explored here illuminate the importance of patience, forgiveness, and humility in resolving disagreements. Passages emphasizing love, kindness, and respectful communication provide a practical framework for dismantling anger and resentment. Ultimately, these scriptures remind us that while disagreements are inevitable, our response is a choice. By anchoring ourselves in faith and actively applying these biblical principles, we can cultivate a spirit of understanding and compassion within our families. Let these verses serve as a constant reminder to seek peaceful resolutions, prioritize unity, and reflect Christ's love in our interactions, thereby strengthening the bonds that tie us together and creating a more harmonious home.